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when your a coupled it is only the 2 of you. you are each others most important person and please each other as you need. but what if there are need you can't fulfill? can we expect to get everything from one man? what if one man isn't enough? me and my partner are alone in our relationship but the other day i started to wonder, should i find another man to fulfill the needs he can't? i am normally the monogamous type that doesn't think a relationship should involve more than 2 persons but what if that is bullshit? what if its just something we've grown up to learn and it really doesn't matter if there are a third person? it would be a change, sure, but would it be as bad as i think? if you have sex with 2 different people at the same time, is it cheating? and who are you cheating, yourself or one of the guys?

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Submission. i know i should think about he's needs at all times, and i do very often, but does he EVER FUCKING consider MY needs? i haven't been whipped, spanked or played with for 3 1/2 weeks, and i miss it SOOO much. i can't give him what he wants because he don't consider my needs or feelings. if he only gave me what i needed sometimes then i would be happy to please him at all times. but he doesn't, so what do i do? 1. i could start provoking him, being a bitch... 2. i can just let this go and settle for the fact that i will never be spanked, whipped or played with again. 3. i can find some magical lamp and change him forever. 4. i can leave him and find someone who wants to do the job right. but none of those opportunities are realistic. so what do i do? PLEASE HELP