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when your a coupled it is only the 2 of you. you are each others most important person and please each other as you need. but what if there are need you can't fulfill? can we expect to get everything from one man? what if one man isn't enough? me and my partner are alone in our relationship but the other day i started to wonder, should i find another man to fulfill the needs he can't? i am normally the monogamous type that doesn't think a relationship should involve more than 2 persons but what if that is bullshit? what if its just something we've grown up to learn and it really doesn't matter if there are a third person? it would be a change, sure, but would it be as bad as i think? if you have sex with 2 different people at the same time, is it cheating? and who are you cheating, yourself or one of the guys?